How It Works

If you want to heal your relationship and your heart, you need three things:

1. Personal Responsibility: Believe it or not, you can transform a bad relationship
into a great one, even if the other person never does a thing. How is this possible?
Think of interlocking puzzle pieces: no matter what one looks like, the other always
fits perfectly.

2. Acceptance: Whether you call it "Making lemonade out of lemons", "karma" or
"God's Will", acceptance brings you into connection with something higher and
greater than yourself. If you can live in acceptance, you won't waste energy fighting
or being depleted by challenging situations. You may protest: "Does this mean I
have to lay down and take it?" No. Acceptance merely means that you don't fight
circumstances. Your energy is focused on moving through a difficult situation with
positive qualities like understanding, grace and humor.

3. Forgiveness: When you can forgive, your heart expands in love and health. You
may swear that this can never happen because you have suffered at the hands of a
monster. The simple answer is that forgiveness is a process, in the same way that
childbirth is a process. You may understand the overall idea, but you can't force it.
It needs to happen in its own way and with it's own right timing.

While you probably practice all three, you probably don’t have a consistent way to
integrate them into your relationships. Your brain is constantly whining about what
that person did to you and your heart is hurting.

"So, what the heck am I supposed to do?" Good question! Let's see if I can
make it clearer.....

In the same way that a single domino will spill thousands in a line or the way that
pulling on one thread will unravel a sweater; the right modality, in the right time can
shift a lifetime of a emotional patterns.

One client accessed and cleared emotional trauma from an event she had lived
with for 65 years, in 45 minutes, in her second session.

Another met her soulmate completely by accident after her first session,
ending 25 years of living alone.

A man healed the guilt and grief he felt over his mother's drawn-out and
painful death in his first session.

These are typical sessions, not aberrations.

We access your unconscious brain, through muscle-checking. We follow a sequence
of where you have been, find what is ready for positive change and how that needs
to happen. Then we do energy modalities to shift the old patterns. This approach
works on the body, mind, feelings and spirit at the same time. When you are in a
session, you are consciously working on the problem, you learn things that are
connected to your problem, you learn why you've suffered and you feel the healing
shift. This is a permanent shift and you feel like you have let go of a ton of bricks.

If you haven't already, subscribe to my free weekly session: The Start-Your-Week-
Right. Every week, it gives you a weekly boost of focus, joy and love. It allows you
to improve your relationships in a way that heals your heart. It carries you through
baby steps of healing your heart in a very easy and not-scary way.

Still hesitating on whether to subscribe? See if you still believe in these
Relationship Myths.