I’d like to set the record straight on some Relationship Myths: Grieving means lots of crying.
Traditional therapy is the gold standard for family problems. Postpartum Depression and ADD
have nothing to do with relationships. Being or having a teen means surefire insanity. Your
relationship is sunk because your partner refuses to 'get help'. Divorces have to be nasty.
When someone dies, that's the end of the relationship.

Nearly everyone who is happy in their heart knows these secrets: Relationships change
over time and need adjustments. Unhappy relationships are never one person's fault.
The way to have a great relationships is to accept, forgive and take responsibility for your
actions.  But...you already know all that....and you are doing it to the best of your ability.

When you are in an unhappy or difficult relationship, whether it is with your new baby, your
partner, or your deceased parent, for that matter, it can be really hard to figure out what is
going on. Are you the one with the problem? Or are they? Or is it a combination of both? Or
are there circumstances beyond your control?  And when you do figure out the who, what,
and where of the problem: You are still left with "How are we going to improve things?"

These questions are legitimate, but you are asking them too soon. The first question is, “Do
we need help?” Or, “Is what we are doing working to our satisfaction?"

If you answered “Yes” to needing help, or “No” to being satisfied, then probably, you, like the
rest of us, could use some help. That doesn't mean you know what kind of help you are
needing, or where to get it. It just means that you could use some help of some kind.  

"Okay, so I need help. Now what?"

When you acknowledge that, you have freed yourself up to search for the kind of help that
fits you and your particular situation. I'm a resource for many different types of relationships
because no matter what the presenting situation looks or sounds like, the patterns of relating
are the same.

It’s difficult to know where to go for help, especially when we are angry, afraid, depressed or
in a bad relationship. Especially, if it the other person refuses or is unable to be involved in
the process. We can sometimes feel as if we are walking on eggshells and each step is
agonizingly dangerous.

Even if that seems irrational (and sometimes it’s not), it is how we are feeling. We’ve spent a
lifetime building up defenses and compensations that have helped us survive. It's hard to
know when it's safe to let those defenses down or even to let them go. What if we make the
wrong choice? What if it doesn’t work? Who can handle more disappointment on top of what
we already have?

Our brain is simple and predictable. It remembers how to protect us from life-threatening
situations. However, we can spend years doing something that doesn't serve us anymore
because our brain remembers how we survived in the past. It doesn't like threats and will do
anything to keep us away from harm.

Our heart, however is less discerning. It is always open to receiving love and will follow any
kindness and affection like a puppy dog.

Now, I don’t expect your brain to trust your problems with me right away, even if your heart
tells you that all this makes sense.  That’s why I offer as much support as I can in easy,
private,
free segments. Because I’m the same way: I want all the help I can get, but I need to
be confident that I will be treated tenderly, with love and care. So I offer you some of my work
so your brain can take its time, make sense of it and feel safe.

What's the catch?

People ask me why I give free weekly repatternings. My answer is simple. I'm here on earth
to help people. This is part of my way of fulfilling that mission. There isn't a catch. I provide the
group with healing and valuable insights. You have a place to work on your relationship
wishlist and learn more about the wacky and wonderful aspects of families. You can submit a
problem EVERY WEEK. There's some work and sometimes the sessions hit a little too close to
home but there is also a lighter side and fun while we improve.

I suggest you explore this site, and if it seems like a good fit, sign up for the
Start-Your-
Week-Right Repatterning. The weekly Repatterning works like magic,  but it's not a hocus-
pocus. It's works through basic energetic principles of resonance, entrainment and intention.
The weekly summary explains what shifted and why. You'll find the information is interesting
to read, the session integrates easily, and it's private.
Heck, you don't even have to use
your real name!

I have other sessions and workshops that you may want to increase your relationship
harmony and understanding, but the Free Start-Your-Week-Right Repatterning will always be
FREE.

Resonance Repatterning TM is a comprehensive system that is based on 3000+ years of tried
and tested healing methods. The unconscious brain is constantly streaming information, and
that hasn't changed in all these centuries. What has changed is being able to tap that
knowledge and gather almost every energetic modality into one system. It's a powerful and
precise process.

Can you understand how the unconscious brain works? Can you understand that immense
potential to make your life easier? Can you see your whole approach to relationships would
be vastly different, if you had access to its wisdom?

If you haven’t yet subscribed, that’s the place to start. You will start getting a weekly boost
around the vital issues of loving, being loved, and focusing on the positive things in your life in
a very safe, non-judgmental way. Don't think T-H-E-R-A-P-Y, think Unconscious Brain Amazing!

If this makes sense,  try the work by subscribing to my free weekly session:
The  
Start-Your-Week-Right Repatterning.

And, you may be wondering about the other free stuff. Check out Free Stuff.

As always, please feel free to contact me at any time with any of your questions.

Love,

Donna
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