You find yourself frequently wasting time in conversations that go in circles. Or you might find yourself uncomfortable or even 'freezing' when you have to talk with clients, employees or managers. You either start arguing or you stop talking when you are not getting your point across. People are constantly doing things one way when you wanted them another. It's obvious that they misunderstand you, yet you are very clear. You can't believe it, but they are just not hearing what you say.
You have read "Men are from Mars"and "How to Talk so Kids will Listen". You've taken sales, voice and public speaking classes and Toastmasters. You've been to therapy and still you are either gritting your teeth or yelling, and still, your audience is walking away.
It's no secret that communicating well is an art. It is also an art with some very clear rules. What you need to do is understand the structure of conversation, why people would want to hang on your every word and you need to connect with them on a soul level.
You can face those blocks that cause you to feel fearful and overwhelmed and watch them disappear.
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Most importantly, we build on your strengths. We access and heal those areas of you that are blocked.
Not sure if it is for you? Here's who works well with this approach: Is this You?
If you want to heal your relationship and your heart, you need three things: 1. Personal Responsibility: Believe it or not, you can transform a bad relationship into a great one even if the other person never does a thing. How is this possible? Think of interlocking puzzle pieces: no matter what one looks like, the other always fits perfectly. If you change how you are, the other person will always change in relation to you.
2. Acceptance: Whether you call it "The gift within the problem", "Making lemonade out of lemons", "Karma", or "God's Will", acceptance brings you into connection with something higher and greater than yourself. If you can live in acceptance, you won't waste energy fighting or being depleted by challenging situations. You may protest: "Does this mean I have to lay down and take it?" No. Acceptance merely means that you don't fight circumstances. Your energy is focused on moving through a difficult situation with positive qualities like humility, grace and humor.
3. Forgiveness: "The Balm for the Wounded Heart". When you come to the place in your relationship where there is forgiveness, your heart expands in love and health. You may swear that this can never happen because you have suffered at the hands of a monster. The simple answer is that forgiveness is a process, much in the way giving birth to a child is: you may understand the overall idea, and it needs to happen with its own way and it's own right timing.
While you probably practice all three, you probably don’t have a consistent way to integrate them into your relationships. Your conscious brain is constantly whining about joint responsibility and your heart is like a puppy forgiving everyone and everything in return for a scratch behind the ears. And if you've been avoiding resolution long enough, your physical body is probably chiming in with a few complaints of its own.
"So, what the heck am I supposed to do?" Good question! Let's see if I can make it clearer.....
If you can access the unconscious brain, you can receive a map of where you have been, what is ready to be healed and how it needs to be healed. Really. I am not kidding you.
If you believe that a drop of dye will tint an entire tub of water, or a single domino will spill thousands in a line or one grain of sand can topple a dune or pulling on one tiny thread will unravel an entire sweater, then maybe you can start to see how a single energetic modality can shift a lifetime of an emotional patterns. Maybe???
And....If you can draw from as many healing systems as possible, it's like having loaded dice. You always roll 7's and 11's. Using precision changes the game entirely.
One client accessed and cleared emotional trauma from an event she had lived with for 65 years, in 45 minutes, in her second session.
Another met her soul mate completely by accident after her first session, ending 25 years of living alone.
A man healed the guilt and grief he felt over his mother's drawn-out and painful death in his first session.
These are typical sessions, not aberrations.
The coolest thing about my work is that it works on the physical, mental, emotional and spirit levels. When you are in a session, you know what you are healing, you feel it happening and most importantly, you learn why you have suffered. This process allows you to accept and forgive. A session leaves you in a more coherent state, so you live more fully. You feel better. You attract better situations and relationships. You change everyone in your life for the better by simply being in this more coherent state.
If you haven't already, subscribe to my free weekly proxy session: The Start-Your- Week-Right Repatterning. Every week, it gives you a weekly boost of focus, joy and love. It allows you to improve your relationships in a way that heals your heart. It carries you through baby steps of healing your heart in a very easy and not-scary way.
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