A parent who was receiving her first Repatterning Coaching session looked at me and said,
"I've had 2 years of therapy about my son. Only today, do I understand and feel ready to forgive him."
As a parent, you may want to resolve a physical, emotional or mental problem, or you may want your family to
experience more security, love, ease, communication and joy. Whatever your need, we zero in on the unconscious beliefs
and patterns that keep you stuck in repetitive problems.
More important than efficiency, is the heart connection we bring to each session. You are shifting with love,
support and guidance.
"I've had 2 years of therapy about my son. Only today, do I understand and feel ready to forgive him."
As a parent, you may want to resolve a physical, emotional or mental problem, or you may want your family to
experience more security, love, ease, communication and joy. Whatever your need, we zero in on the unconscious beliefs
and patterns that keep you stuck in repetitive problems.
More important than efficiency, is the heart connection we bring to each session. You are shifting with love,
support and guidance.
Your child is one-of-a-kind.....and you are losing your mind.
You wouldn't wish your child on your worst enemy....or maybe you would....they are
the "centerpiece" at family functions and usually not in a good way. You might have
been tempted to leave them at a rest area....if you thought you could get
away with it.
Infants: Your baby cries way too much. Damned, if you can figure out why more
than 25% of the time. You walk them, rock them, and pass them off to any willing
arms. You are up at night way too much. You receive plenty of advice, none of it
helpful. You feel alone, punished, lost, ashamed, and most of all exhausted.
Read more about babies....
Toddlers: Everything has ended up on top of the refrigerator in your frantic
attempts to keep your child safe. Your child is into the toilet, the outlets, the phone,
the computer, faucets. Your pet goes hungry, so your toddler won't eat its food.
Visiting other houses is a nightmare. You wonder if it's even possible to teach
your child "DON'T TOUCH". Transitions, like getting out of diapers, are
impossible. Your child still doesn't sleep through the night...and you are bleary-eyed
and not thinking clearly.
School Age: Mealtimes continue to be a minefield. Your child has intense likes and
dislikes, and frankly, you are tired of chicken fingers, plain pasta and pizza. At
school, the rubber has hit the road. You have an on-going dialogue with every adult
in the school. You are sick of homework, sick of explaining, sick of school,
sick of Parent/Teacher conferences. Your child often loses lunchboxes, coats,
gloves, hats, pants. (Pants! How does a kid lose his pants?) Your child comes home
restless, agitated, and hungry. Your life may feel like running on marbles.
Tweens: Your child struggles with finding and keeping friends. Organized sports
have become too confining. You might find sleepovers are a nightmare. Moodiness is
the new norm. Your child picks fights and criticizes everything. Homework is
probably inconsistent. Your child works best when you sit next to them as long as
you stay patient, which is nearly impossible. Old favorite pastimes have been
replaced by video games, computer time and watching TV. Read more about
Tweens
Teens: Your child is obsessed with their appearance...and yours. They have become
secretive and lie to your face. You might have the "Slacker" or the "Valedictorian".
You walk on eggshells waiting for the next explosion or silent treatment. Their sleep
is probably erratic and they definitely can't wake up for school. You might not like
their friends but you put up with them because, at least they have friends. Texting,
Facebook, MySpace, online games, movies, and TV are your constant
companions. When you try to set limits, your child threatens you. Read more
about Teens...
You wouldn't wish your child on your worst enemy....or maybe you would....they are
the "centerpiece" at family functions and usually not in a good way. You might have
been tempted to leave them at a rest area....if you thought you could get
away with it.
Infants: Your baby cries way too much. Damned, if you can figure out why more
than 25% of the time. You walk them, rock them, and pass them off to any willing
arms. You are up at night way too much. You receive plenty of advice, none of it
helpful. You feel alone, punished, lost, ashamed, and most of all exhausted.
Read more about babies....
Toddlers: Everything has ended up on top of the refrigerator in your frantic
attempts to keep your child safe. Your child is into the toilet, the outlets, the phone,
the computer, faucets. Your pet goes hungry, so your toddler won't eat its food.
Visiting other houses is a nightmare. You wonder if it's even possible to teach
your child "DON'T TOUCH". Transitions, like getting out of diapers, are
impossible. Your child still doesn't sleep through the night...and you are bleary-eyed
and not thinking clearly.
School Age: Mealtimes continue to be a minefield. Your child has intense likes and
dislikes, and frankly, you are tired of chicken fingers, plain pasta and pizza. At
school, the rubber has hit the road. You have an on-going dialogue with every adult
in the school. You are sick of homework, sick of explaining, sick of school,
sick of Parent/Teacher conferences. Your child often loses lunchboxes, coats,
gloves, hats, pants. (Pants! How does a kid lose his pants?) Your child comes home
restless, agitated, and hungry. Your life may feel like running on marbles.
Tweens: Your child struggles with finding and keeping friends. Organized sports
have become too confining. You might find sleepovers are a nightmare. Moodiness is
the new norm. Your child picks fights and criticizes everything. Homework is
probably inconsistent. Your child works best when you sit next to them as long as
you stay patient, which is nearly impossible. Old favorite pastimes have been
replaced by video games, computer time and watching TV. Read more about
Tweens
Teens: Your child is obsessed with their appearance...and yours. They have become
secretive and lie to your face. You might have the "Slacker" or the "Valedictorian".
You walk on eggshells waiting for the next explosion or silent treatment. Their sleep
is probably erratic and they definitely can't wake up for school. You might not like
their friends but you put up with them because, at least they have friends. Texting,
Facebook, MySpace, online games, movies, and TV are your constant
companions. When you try to set limits, your child threatens you. Read more
about Teens...
You have tried reading books and asking questions, rationalizing, watching
videos, classes, therapy, talking to your friends and family. As you have come to
realize, your kid will not be leaving home anytime soon and something has
to change.
"Great." you say, "Now what?"
When you are an unhappy parent, whether it is your first child, or fifth, it
can be really hard to figure out why they struggle. What is their problem? Are they
really having trouble or just manipulating you? How could they need so much?
And when you do figure out the what and the why of the problem: You are still left
with: "I can't take it any more. What do I do now?"
This question is legitimate and probably scary. You are an adult. You should
know how to do this, right?
So let me ask you:
If you answered “Yes” to needing help, or “No” to being satisfied, then
probably, you, like the rest of us, could use some help. That doesn't mean you
know what kind of help you are needing, or where to get it. It just means that you
could use some help of some kind.
"My child's laying on the floor, crying and clutching my leg. I think I need
some help"
I get the picture! When you accept this, you are free to search for the kind of help
that fits you and your family. It’s so hard to know where to go for help, especially
when you are exhausted from your child's demands. You can often feel as if you are
the only one who gone through this.
What might be helpful right is to take a moment and take a deep breath.
Even if they are howling....remember why you did this.
You may not believe this, but you are the expert in what is best for your child.
You know what to do.
What you need to do is to clear away some old stuff and stand solid, knowing
and ready for action. Your child is who they are. Here are some things that can
really help you.
It all starts with a free session. I would recommend starting with your child's
developmental stage above and clicking through to the desired section. If none of
those seem to fit, sign up for a:
videos, classes, therapy, talking to your friends and family. As you have come to
realize, your kid will not be leaving home anytime soon and something has
to change.
"Great." you say, "Now what?"
When you are an unhappy parent, whether it is your first child, or fifth, it
can be really hard to figure out why they struggle. What is their problem? Are they
really having trouble or just manipulating you? How could they need so much?
And when you do figure out the what and the why of the problem: You are still left
with: "I can't take it any more. What do I do now?"
This question is legitimate and probably scary. You are an adult. You should
know how to do this, right?
So let me ask you:
- Do you need help?
- Is what you are doing working to your satisfaction?
If you answered “Yes” to needing help, or “No” to being satisfied, then
probably, you, like the rest of us, could use some help. That doesn't mean you
know what kind of help you are needing, or where to get it. It just means that you
could use some help of some kind.
"My child's laying on the floor, crying and clutching my leg. I think I need
some help"
I get the picture! When you accept this, you are free to search for the kind of help
that fits you and your family. It’s so hard to know where to go for help, especially
when you are exhausted from your child's demands. You can often feel as if you are
the only one who gone through this.
What might be helpful right is to take a moment and take a deep breath.
Even if they are howling....remember why you did this.
You may not believe this, but you are the expert in what is best for your child.
You know what to do.
What you need to do is to clear away some old stuff and stand solid, knowing
and ready for action. Your child is who they are. Here are some things that can
really help you.
- Group support can be a sanity saver. Just knowing: "I am not the only one!"
is a huge release in tension.
- De-coding of normal behaviors may help you to write your own personal
parenting manual and save you and your child a lot of irritation with each
other.
- One-on-one sessions around specific stumbling blocks in your parenting to
heal your grieving/angry/childish parts.
It all starts with a free session. I would recommend starting with your child's
developmental stage above and clicking through to the desired section. If none of
those seem to fit, sign up for a:
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Individual and Series
Coaching/Repatterning
Sessions are available and
can be helpful for any of
these:
Emotional Problems:
Developmental Issues:
Unresolved Situations:
Desired Outcomes:
Helping older children to
be more:
Coaching/Repatterning
Sessions are available and
can be helpful for any of
these:
Emotional Problems:
- Anxiety about child
- Fear, Anger or Grief
about birth - Anger at child or self
- Fear in relationships
- Feelings of Overwhelm
- Hating your partner
Developmental Issues:
- Refusal to breastfeed
- Sleep (Lack of)
- Colic
- High Need Baby
- Disconnection
- Toilet Training
- Weaning
Unresolved Situations:
- Birth Trauma/Stillbirth
- Adoption
- Abortion/D & C
- Cesarean Section
- Postpartum Depression
- Post Traumatic Stress
- Bad Karmic Relationships
Desired Outcomes:
- VBAC
- Cesarean prevention
- Home birth
- Full-term pregnancy
- Empowered birth
- Harmonious families
- Healthy sleep habits
- Breastfeeding success
Helping older children to
be more:
- Empowered
- Loving
- Healthy
- Cooperative
- Connected
- Social
- Curious
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| "The child teaches with a carrot. If you ignore that, they teach with a stick." |
Here's why I am passionate
about parenting:
My own not-so-great
experiences as a mother-of-3
frustrated me and I wanted
some kind of peace around
mothering.
I had a cesarean followed by a
year of crying and depression
with a high-need baby and a
full-time business. I was
pregnant with my twins when I
had my first Resonance
Repatterning session and
went on to have a VBAC at
home.
My Training:
My kids are my teachers. They
have uncompromising
demands for my personal
growth. They have allowed (or
forced) me to live spiritual
qualities like grace, joy,
connection, humility, humor
and acceptance.
about parenting:
My own not-so-great
experiences as a mother-of-3
frustrated me and I wanted
some kind of peace around
mothering.
I had a cesarean followed by a
year of crying and depression
with a high-need baby and a
full-time business. I was
pregnant with my twins when I
had my first Resonance
Repatterning session and
went on to have a VBAC at
home.
My Training:
- Mother of 3
- Certified Resonance
Repatterning Practitioner - Board Certified Lactation
Consultant (IBCLC) - La Leche League Leader
- Communication Skills
Instructor
My kids are my teachers. They
have uncompromising
demands for my personal
growth. They have allowed (or
forced) me to live spiritual
qualities like grace, joy,
connection, humility, humor
and acceptance.
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| This is a Free 30-minute Session to help you figure out what is going on with you and your child: We talk about what is happening, why it's happening, what is working, what is not working and how to get unstuck and make positive changes. It's a Phone, skype or office visit-- whatever is best for you. At the end of the free session you will have:
• A new awareness of what is causing the problem (It may not be what you think!) • A renewed sense of empowerment about parenting (and you'll know when it's time to get more help). • A "next-step" action plan for becoming the parent you want to be, and building your child's trust, connection, self esteem, and confidence! |
| Free "Parenting Problem Solver" Session |
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